It can be easy for me to feel isolated these days, with the restrictions of Covid and not being able to socialize with people in person. I miss my small groups of hearing people share and the time to socialize or go deeper with people before or after a more formal gathering. I learn so much about myself through the stories of others, and enjoy learning new truths and new resources that help me see beyond my current reality. Nothing feels greater than being loved by others, and sensing a spiritual connection and unity in a room.
I find that for me to really connect in a new church, I need to find ways to be involved. I am grateful that Montavilla has several virtual groups that I can connect with to learn more about the people here. I have been attending the church Bible Study, and have enjoyed learning more about Pastor Becca and going deeper into the weekly sermon topics. I also have been amazed by the experiences and insights of the other people attending the meeting. It can take time to really feel connected, but as I put myself out there, and take some risks, it will happen in time. The United Methodist Women are also doing a book study this month, so I look forward to another opportunity to read a new book, and meet some more women here.
It can be hard to go out of my comfort zone at times, but often this is where I grow the most. Being intentional about things that help me grow spiritually brings me a joy that I desperately need during times of so much sorrow and hardship. I can choose to share a little more with others, even if it feels different on a Zoom call than in person. I can reach out and call people or find ways to be of service in the here and now. I don’t have to wait until we return to a building, I can make the most of the gifts available to me today.
Blessings and love, Elissa