Pretty much EVERY clergywoman, myself included, hates the song, “Mary Did You Know” because it is the most biblically inaccurate Christmas Song ever!
I mean… I mean… just listen to this schlock!
Mary, did you know That your baby boy Is the Lord of all creation?
Mary, did you know That your baby boy Will one day rule the nations?
Did you know That your baby boy Was heaven’s perfect Lamb?
And the sleeping Child you’re holdin’ Is the Great I Am!
It’s so inaccurate that fellow clergywoman, Megan Westra rewrote the lyrics in response.https://heatherprincedoss.com/mary-freaking-knew/
Mary freaking knew, that her baby boy would one day rule the nations.
Mary freaking knew, that her baby boy was Lord of all creation.
Yes she knew! Read Luke 1, you fool, she sang about it then;
It helps, if when you’re reading,
you listen to the
WOMENNNNNNNN!
The man who wrote “Mary Did You Know” is the sort of conservative Christian who doesn’t believe that women can be Pastors, much less prophets, so it makes sense that his view of Mary is of an ignorant and submissive girl who has no idea what she is getting into.
As Ruth said, when we sang O Little Town of Bethlehem on December 1st, only a man would think that Mary was silent about the birth of Jesus!
Ruth definitely identified the source of the problem!
Because as I read commentaries on today’s Bible readings, there were definitely two very different views of this story. Male scholars typically took the view that Mary was an unwed teenage mother who was helpless, vulnerable, meek, and ignorant.
Female scholars, especially those of us who have had the experience of giving birth and parenting teenage girls, view Mary’s experience as powerful.
First of all, teenage girls are not silent!
Anybody else here raised a teen girl? Not silent!
Teenage girls carry within them a powerful rage because they see so clearly the injustice of the patriarchy, in the way their own bodily autonomy is objectified into what is appealing to men. Even in the Gospel of Luke, the Messenger Gabriel doesn’t ask Mary if she’s willing to Mother the Messiah, he just tells her her body is about to be used. But Mary, in true teenage girl fashion, intelligently questions Gabriel, asking, “and… this will happen how? Because I’ve never had sex with a man.” (Luke 1:34) And after getting her question answered, teenaged Mary, gets the last word, by taking back her agency and saying yes, even though nobody asked for her consent.
Second of All, Pregnancy is powerful. Cis Men talk about Mary being vulnerable and helpless because they have no idea how much energy it takes to grow a whole human inside of you. Men view birth as helpless and vulnerable because there’s nothing they can do to protect us from it. But the muscles and sheer effort that it takes to give birth requires a marathon level of energy.
But I think perhaps the most significant difference in view is our views of power.
The “traditional,” patriarchal view of the world defines power almost exclusively as the power to destroy.
- The country with the biggest military is the most powerful.
- The corporation who can extract the most labor and resources for the least expense is the most powerful.
- The ruler who can impose their will over the most people, whether they like it or not, especially if they don’t like, is the most powerful.
- The biggest city with the most wealthy people is the most powerful, even though that same city will usually have many more people living in poverty.
- The bully with the scariest, “or else,” is the most powerful.
This is how we’ve been taught to define power.
Power as, “power over.” Power as the ability to enforce your will on others.
Power as the ability to destroy and dominate.
The Prophet Micah offers us the beginning of glimpses of a different kind of power: Generative Power, that is the power of creation.
Micah, like Mary, came from a small town, rural, working class family. Micah worked as a prophet around 730 years before the first Christmas. Micah went from small town boy to court prophet to 3 kings of Judah, Jotham, Ahaz, and Hezekiah, but he never forgot his hometown roots among the small-time farmers and shepherds in the foothills of the central highlands of Palestine.
You will probably recognize Micah by his most famous quote, Micah 6:8
“God has told you, O mortal, what is good:
and what does the LORD require of you
but to do justice, and to love mercy, and to walk humbly with your God?”
The reason Micah was calling for justice and mercy and humility was because the Kings and local leaders were foreclosing on small farms and homesteads, tossing whole families into the street and dooming their children to starvation. (Micah 2:2; 9)
Micah’s calling as a prophet was to proclaim that God cares about the little people. That the God of Jacob, is the defender of shepherds and poor farmers. That God favors those whose daily labor is tending life. The life of plants, the life of livestock, the life of the people who eat the food and wear the clothes woven from the wool and the flax.
In today’s reading, it’s inside the bulletin, if you want to follow along, Micah is proclaiming that God has had it with the Big Kings from the Big Cities of Samaria and Jerusalem.
Next time, God is going to raise up a leader from backwater little Bethlehem.
A leader who will act like a good shepherd and take care of the people.
A leader who will bring security to their lives.
A leader who will understand that peace is far more powerful than war.
A leader who understands that real power is the kind of creative power that nurtures life.
We’ve been focusing this Advent on Room.
On Making Room for the Holy in our lives, just as the mysterious Inn Keeper made room for the Holy Family.
On Making Room for Joy by saying no to the myth of scarcity and yes to God’s abundance.
On Making Room at the Table for All of God’s Beloveds, because it’s God’s Table, it’s God’s Church, it’s God’s world. We are limited in what we have and what we can do, But God is unlimited!
Today we are Making Room for a View.
Not the romanticized view of the Star of Bethlehem shining over an open fronted barn with a silent Mary and a baby Jesus who never cries.
Today we are Making Room for a different view of Mary and a different view of Power.
Generative Power.
The power to create and to tend life, not the power to destroy and oppress life.
Look at what the women said.
- Listen to Elizabeth talking about the power of a fetus leaping with joy.
- Listen to teenage Mary singing forth joy from the depths of her being when the whole world is telling her to be ashamed!
- Listen to Mary echoing Micah – talking about taking out the Big City Kings and raising up the lowly.
- Listen to Mary talking about a world where the hungry get the good stuff, and the rich walk away empty handed because they don’t get to steal from the poor anymore.
Mary was a teenage Prophet.
Mary was an Apostle – one of Jesus’ original followers who was there for the whole story.
Mary was a Leader in the early church.
Mary had a vision of the way the world could be if we embraced God’s Generative/Creative definition of Power.
- A View of Power as the daily labor of tending life.
- A View of Power as tending what we love, instead of fighting what we hate.
- A View of Power as reclaiming our agency from those who seek to dominate and oppress,
- A View of Power as saying yes to God’s vision of what the world could be if God’s will was done here on earth as it is in Heaven.
Teenage Mary, and small town Micah lived in a world very much like our own.
A world where Bullies, whether they be Kings or Corporate CEO’s seek to enrich themselves by denying God’s call to care for the Lowly.
Teenage Mary, and small town Micah were not powerful people from important families. They were small town, working class folks who found their voices, and shared a view of what the world *could be* in the face of what the world is.
There are those who say that God’s Reign of Generative Power will never come here on earth as it is in heaven. But I don’t particularly care how right they may or may not be.
Because like Mary, my inner teenager has a few things to say about justice and mercy.
And I would rather be wrong about believing in the Power of God’s Love than be right about the Power of destruction and oppression.